On hold, unanswered.
Oct
6
2008
Posted at: 8:29 pm
Filed under : Uncategorized 
I have 4 questions, and I will very much enjoy your responses…..
1. Do you believe in second chances? & If so, why..
2. How do you forget in the act to forgive? Is there an instruction manual, & where is this purchased?
3. Why do we stay in touch with those that keep putting us down??? ( i don’t mean those that let you down,….)
4. Has anyone found the answer to which is deeper (the deep blue ocean or your hearts capacity to fall madly in love)?
….& now I shall wait for your response.
Sweet Anger said,
October 6, 2008 @ 11:50 pm
1) Yes absolutely but purely for selfish reasons as i make many many many mistakes consciously or not and therefore would like the chance to redeem myself. Seriously none of us are perfect tis why we’re human, everyone at some point will make a mistake
2)It is completely optional, i cant forget but i can push aside no idea if its healthy but seems to work for me, most important thing is to learn 🙂
3)Blood, lust, infatuation and the whole “the devil you know…”
4)Hmm my mind and heart are at conflict, but im gonna have to say heart no matter how hard u try there no way u can over fill it…
Eschew Obfuscation said,
October 7, 2008 @ 4:54 am
1. No, I do not.
2. Forgiving and forgetting are two completely separate issues. The saying goes “forgive and forget” but this saying is politically incorrect. People may forgive, but they never forget. They may forgive, but the act remains engraved in their minds, thus causing any actions after said forgiveness to strike thought and doubt about the intentions of the person initially forgiven.
3. People who put you down are people that want other around them to be lesser or equal to them. They dont people around them to succeed and become better than them, thereby lowering their self-esteem and causing them to feel bad about the wrong turns they made in their own lives. We stay in touch with them for different reasons; each of us has his/her own. Some stay in touch with people that put them down because they like how it feels to be compared to someone less accomplished and gives more value to our own accomplishments. Others stay in touch to because they dont forget friends, regardless. When the people that put you down are no lesser than you are, and perhaps better, you stay in touch with them to fuel your motivation.
4. I wish i could say the hearts capacity to fall madly in love is much larger and deeper than any sea, but i dont see it.
joejoe said,
October 7, 2008 @ 2:36 pm
1. “True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be.”
2. Forgive… but do not ever forget.
3. Perhaps we forget the sting, perhaps we are blinded by lust, or perhaps we have faith they will change.
Don’t let them do that to you.
4. The underdeveloped power of ourselves and our capacity to love is deeper (and much more personally intriguing) than the deep blue ocean in my opinion.
Both remain largely unexplored.
Abeer said,
October 7, 2008 @ 4:10 pm
1. Do you believe in second chances? & If so, why..
I don’t really believe in second chance.. why because as long as there is a second chance there would be a third,forth,… chances, and so on! controversially… there are some people who really deserve to be given a second chance “and only second but not more ;)” If they really deserve this chance.. then you won’t be regretting them, nor you have a second thought to give them more chances!
2. How do you forget in the act to forgive? Is there an instruction manual, & where is this purchased?
Those are two related words.. you won’t be able to forget without forgiving.. and at the same time you’ll never forgive someone without forgetting! Forgetting is the mercy from god..it is a matter of time! where you have to move on and close the old chapters. time+space=forget. forget==forgive.
3. Why do we stay in touch with those that keep putting us down??? ( i don’t mean those that let you down,….)
1- You may feel the loneliness without them.
2- As a human bean, we always look for the people who let us down and blind enough not to see those who really love us and care about us.
4. Has anyone found the answer to which is deeper (the deep blue ocean or your hearts capacity to fall madly in love)?
Of course the deep blue ocean.. that never ends. While your love eventually will end one day.. and past will be in the past not inside the heart!
Intlxpatr said,
October 7, 2008 @ 8:17 pm
1. Do you believe in second chances? & If so, why..
Absolutely. I am not perfect, and I have needed second chances. Absolutely, I give them, and thirds, and fourths. Love is stretchy.
2. How do you forget in the act to forgive? Is there an instruction manual, & where is this purchased?
You don’t really forget; the hurt just diminishes. Later, actually, you do forget. It happens, you don’t believe it now, but it does.
3. Why do we stay in touch with those that keep putting us down??? ( i don’t mean those that let you down,….)
If it’s family, you stay in touch because it’s family. But you don’t have to let their put downs hurt you. You can learn to walk away, you can learn to laugh in their faces. They hate that. The important thing is to stay connected. Nothing can change if there is no connection.
If it’s some friend or lover, then it might be a different story, then you can walk away.
4. Has anyone found the answer to which is deeper (the deep blue ocean or your hearts capacity to fall madly in love)?
Falling in love has no depth to it like the act of staying in a committed relationship for a lifetime. You learn all the unglamorous virtues – self-sacrifice, self-denial, forgiveness, patience, kindness, loyalty . . . .
You think this has nothing to do with love, but it has everything to do with it – value yourself appropriately. Value yourself for the right reasons. Don’t care too much for someone who doesn’t add value to your life. 🙂
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October 9, 2008 @ 4:41 am
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